Saturday, 22 September 2012

Hi, There..

...A letter to myself

I chanced upon a very interesting blogging contest last night on It asks you to write a letter to yourself. Suddenly all the high level training programs that we conduct at Initiatives of Change, Panchgani came alive to the mind. For, starting from the IAS officers down to mid-management officers in private and public sectors we train in ‘Ethical Leadership’ and ’Effective Living’, the last process we ask them all to do is ‘to write a letter to the self
But, to tell you the truth, I had never done this exercise for myself.  This contest prompted me to at least brood over it. I did not get sleep for a long time. I had just seen, in the serial Balika Vadhu, how Jagya splits into many, and talks to all his different selves. The NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programing) technique of seeing self from ‘outside’ as a third person also crossed my mind. After all, I should use my being NLP practitioner for myself too some time! Zzzz...,and, early morning as I woke up, I had decided to bite the bullet. So here I go…

Hi, there…(this is the closest I could reach in addressing myself),
     I tried to call you, on your mobile phone, but every time I tried, it gave the same message, ‘the person you are calling is busy at the moment. Please call after some time…’, hence I thought I will write a letter to you. However, I am in a dilemma. As I separate from you, and look at you, I see a big crowd in you. You are not one. You are an entrepreneur, a citizen, a counselor, a trainer, a father, husband, brother, son…You are a writer, a public speaker, a photographer, a zentangler… Whom do I address? You are a big crowd!
     You understand what is a crowd, don’t you? A large congregation of people, with no common goal is a crowd. Very noisy, undisciplined, destructive at best, are the characteristics of a crowd. A crowd has lots of energy, but no direction.  And I have the audacity to call you a crowd! I have seen you struggling with the multiple roles that you have cut out for you. I am sure you would have experienced all the ‘qualities’ described above while juggling with every member within your crowd
     I have also seen you attempting to make a transition from crowd to a group..At least the group would have discipline, and perhaps no destructive tendencies. Yes, each individual member of the group would still have individual goals, but you can manage with the energy distribution..
     I think the time has come for you to transit into a ‘team’ from the group. Yes, you cannot appoint just one role as a permanent captain; rather, you may have to create a rolling captaincy based on the context. Say, at a party, chief, or father in you cannot be given captainship. The fun loving guy within you has to take the lead! You will not spoil the parties then! All your energies will be channelized well and a lot more purchase you will be able to get from your life.
     You only have one, and make the best out of it. It’s too late now, go to sleep and wake up tomorrow as a captain of the winning team!

Yours …Always.

This post is part of the contest A letter to yourself.. on

Monday, 17 September 2012

India I (don't) Care..

A hard hitting truth staring in our eyes..

A damning article we can not ignore.

As INDIA I CARE clan, can we take up the gauntlet ? Do we have alternatives? Please read it thoroughly, Pick holes if you can, but also accept what stares in the eyes as the truth.
Just yesterday I read a beautiful poem by TTT. The relevant lines in the context of this post goes-

"Have I become
a part of your life
So much
That you forgot my existence ?

You notice my wilted flowers
You rush inside
to get a glass of water
The world news on the TV
catches your attention
and the glass of water
remains by your side"

May I urge you to get engaged in the act of REBUILDING THE CHARACTER BANK OF INDIA. Please do make commitments and declare them here on this platform.


Sean Paul Kelley is a travel writer, former radio host, and before that an asset manager for a Wall Street investment bank that is still (barely) alive. He recently left a fantastic job in Singapore working for Solar Winds, a software company based out of Austin to travel around the world for a year (or two). He founded The Agonist, in 2002, which is still considered the top international affairs, culture and news destination for progressives. He is also the Global Correspondent for The Young Turks, on satellite radio and Air America .

 If you are Indian, or of Indian descent, I must preface this post with a clear warning: you are not going to like what I have to say. My criticisms may be very hard to stomach. But consider them as the hard words and loving advice of a good friend. Someone who’s being honest with you and wants nothing from you.  
These criticisms apply  to all of India except Kerala and the places I didn’t visit, except that I have a feeling it applies to all of India , except as I mentioned before, Kerala.  
Lastly, before anyone accuses me of Western Cultural Imperialism, let me say this: if this is what India and Indians want, then hey, who am I to tell them differently. Take what you like and leave the rest. In the end it doesn’t really matter, as I get the sense that Indians, at least many upper class Indians, don’t seem to care and the lower classes just don’t know any better, what with Indian culture being so intense and pervasive on the sub-continent. But here goes, nonetheless.  
India is a mess. It’s that simple, but it’s also quite complicated. I’ll start with what I think are India ’s four major problems–the four most preventing India from becoming a developing nation–and then move to some of the ancillary ones.  
First, pollution. In my opinion, the filth, squalor and all around pollution indicates a marked lack of respect for India by Indians. I don’t know how cultural the filth is, but it’s really beyond anything I have ever encountered.  At times the smells, trash, refuse and excrement are like a garbage dump.  
Right next door to the Taj Mahal was a pile of trash that smelled so bad, was so foul, as to almost ruin the entire Taj experience. Delhi , Bangalore and Chennai, to a lesser degree, were so very polluted as to make me physically ill. Sinus infections, ear infection, bowels churning was an all too common experience in India . Dung, be it goat, cow or human fecal matter, was common on the streets. In major tourist areas, filth was everywhere, littering the sidewalks, the roadways, you name it. Toilets in the middle of the road, men urinating and defecating anywhere, in broad daylight.  
Whole villages are plastic bag wastelands. Roadsides are choked by it. Air quality that can hardly be called quality. Far too much coal and far to few unleaded vehicles on the road. The measure should be, how dangerous the air is for one’s health, not how good it is. People casually throw trash in the streets, on the roads. 
The only two cities that could be considered sanitary in my journey were Trivandrum –the capital of Kerala–and Calicut . I don’t know why this is. But I can assure you that at some point this pollution will cut into India ’s productivity, if it already hasn’t. The pollution will hobble India ’s growth path, if that indeed is what the country wants. (Which I personally doubt, as India is far too conservative a country, in the small ‘c’ sense.)
The second issue, infrastructure, can be divided into four subcategories: roads, rails and ports and the electrical grid. The electrical grid is a joke. Load shedding is all too common, everywhere in India . Wide swaths of the country spend much of the day without the electricity they actually pay for. With out regular electricity, productivity, again, falls.  
The ports are a joke. Antiquated, out of date, hardly even appropriate for the mechanized world of container ports, more in line with the days of longshoremen and the like. Roads are an equal disaster. I only saw one elevated highway that would be considered decent in Thailand , much less Western Europe or America . And I covered fully two thirds of the country during my visit.  
There are so few dual carriage way roads as to be laughable. There are no traffic laws to speak of, and if there are, they are rarely obeyed, much less enforced. A drive that should take an hour takes three. A drive that should take three takes nine. The buses are at least thirty years old, if not older.  
Everyone in India , or who travels in India , raves about the railway system. Rubbish. It’s awful. now, when I was there in 2003 and then late 2004, it was decent. But in the last five years, the traffic on the rails has grown so quickly that once again, it is threatening productivity. Waiting in line just to ask a question now, takes thirty minutes. Routes are routinely sold out three and four days in advance now, leaving travelers stranded with little option except to take the decrepit and dangerous buses.  
At least fifty million people use the trains a day in India . 50 million people! Not surprising that waitlists of 500 or more people are common now.  
The rails are affordable and comprehensive, but they are overcrowded and what with budget airlines popping up in India like Sadhus in an ashram, the middle and lowers classes are left to deal with the overutilized rails and quality suffers. No one seems to give a shit.  
Seriously, I just never have the impression that the Indian government really cares. Too interested in buying weapons from Russia , Israel and the US , I guess.  
The last major problem in India is an old problem and can be divided into two parts that’ve been two sides of the same coin since government was invented: bureaucracy and corruption.  
It take triplicates to register into a hotel. To get a SIM card for one’s phone is like wading into a jungle of red-tape and photocopies one is not likely to emerge from in a good mood, much less satisfied with customer service.  
Getting train tickets is a terrible ordeal, first you have to find the train number, which takes 30 minutes, then you have to fill in the form, which is far from easy, then you have to wait in line to try and make a reservation, which takes 30 minutes at least and if you made a single mistake on the form back you go to the end of the queue, or what passes for a queue in India.  
The government is notoriously uninterested in the problems of the commoners, too busy fleecing the rich, or trying to get rich themselves in some way shape or form. Take the trash for example, civil rubbish collection authorities are too busy taking kickbacks from the wealthy to keep their areas clean that they don’t have the time, manpower, money or interest in doing their job.  
Rural hospitals are perennially understaffed as doctors pocket the fees the government pays them, never show up at the rural hospitals and practice in the cities instead.  
I could go on for quite some time about my perception of India and its problems, but in all seriousness, I don’t think anyone in India really cares. And that, to me, is the biggest problem. India is too conservative a society to want to change in any way.  
Mumbai, India ’s financial capital is about as filthy, polluted and poor as the worst city imaginable in Vietnam , or Indonesia –and being more polluted than Medan , in Sumatra is no easy task. The biggest rats I have ever seen were in Medan !  
One would expect a certain amount of, yes, I am going to use this word, backwardness, in a country that hasn’t produced so many Nobel Laureates, nuclear physicists, imminent economists and entrepreneurs. But India has all these things and what have they brought back to India with them? Nothing.  
The rich still have their servants, the lower castes are still there to do the dirty work and so the country remains in stasis. It’s a shame. Indians and India have many wonderful things to offer the world, but I’m far from sanguine that India will amount to much in my lifetime.  
Now, have at it, call me a cultural imperialist, a spoiled child of the West and all that.  But remember, I’ve been there. I’ve done it. And I’ve seen 50 other countries on this planet and none, not even Ethiopia , have as long and gargantuan a laundry list of problems as India does.  
And the bottom line is, I don’t think India really cares. Too complacent and too conservative. 

Saturday, 15 September 2012

15 Sept-Free Money Day 2012

I received this very strange (and interesting) news letter from Daily Good.

The title is Free Money Day: Giving Is Common Cents. It goes on to describe a unique event taking place last year on the same date (15th Sept, 2011) to coincide with the day on which Lehmann Brothers had filed for bankruptcy in 2008. Their collapse had triggered series of events leading to the Global financial mayhem the world is yet to come out of it.

Free Money Day, 15 Sept,2012
60 events had taken place last year in several countries where in the experimenters simply gave away monies to perfect strangers with a rider that the stranger will do the same with half of the money he had been given!

Read the whole account on, or click on for interesting info.

Today, on 15th Sept,2012 the event is taking place on a larger format. And I have registered to participate and have my first hand experience.

I have my own philosophy about money, that it is an artificial creation of man, and hence it is not real. I will elaborate it in my next post when I will give account of my experiences:-)

Till then, India I Care,